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Wednesday, November 29, 2023


Charity Ball Dances Its Way to a Century of Celebrations!






On December 3, 1880 the first Ladies Union Relief Society meeting was held at the Presbyterian Church in Westfield NY. The second meeting was held at the home of Mrs. G.W. Patterson, Ladies Union Relief Society President with board officers: Mrs. Harriet L. Minton, Vice President; Mrs. R.W. Scott, secretary; Mrs. E.A. Skinner, treasurer. Founded by this small group of caring and concerned women who wished to help their less fortunate neighbors, Union Relief today continues that tradition by giving temporary relief to those in distress and cooperating in the welfare of the community. Today, the organization is known as the Union Relief Association of Westfield NY.




The annual Charity Ball is the largest annual fundraiser project used to finance the good works of the organization.  From its beginning in 1880 to 2023, Union Relief is now celebrating its 143rd year with their annual Charity Ball celebrating 100 years!  Congratulations to this organization for an outstanding legacy. A Dibble’s Dabbles article by the late Billie Dibble, former Westfield town historian dated October 25, 1980 marked the Union Relief’s 100 years from 1880-1980. 

In 1888, the first Charity Ball was held February 10 at the Wells Opera House, which was the third floor of the building at 27-29 East Main Street. Ticket price was one dollar. Today, Betts Insurance Agency is located at 27 East Main Street; H&R Block is at 29 East Main Street. The stairway entrance to the upper floors leading to the opera house is between 27 East Main Street and 29 East Main Street. The upper floors later became the IOOF (Independent Order of Odd Fellows).  In 1890, the second Charity Ball returned to the Wells Opera House on April 16 with an orchestra from Westfield providing the music. In 1891, there were two Charity Balls held on April 1 and on December 30 at Virginia Hall located on the third floor of 1 & 3 East Main Street. Music was provided by the Massasauga Orchestra of Erie on April 1.  Tute Shaw Violin and Piano provided the music on December 30.  In 1892 and in 1893, the Charity Ball was, again, held at Virginia Hall with the 74th Regiment Orchestra playing for the final year at Virginia Hall.  Today,  Executive II Barbershop is located at 1 East Main Street and Parkview Cafe is located at 3 East Main Street. Access to the upper floors is between the two businesses.

From 1893 to 1917 records show there were no Charity Balls.  Ladies Union Relief Society was receiving enough contributions to cover the needs of their services to the needy and local churches provided Thanksgiving offerings. Ladies Union Relief Society used Fenner Hall for various fundraising activities which included card parties with some dancing though no events under the heading, Charity Ball. These gatherings were to obtain funds for their continuing community work during those years.

In 1917, the Charity Ball relocated to Fenner Hall at the top floor of 14 North Portage Street, a three story building called the Fenner Block.  The Charity Ball was only held one year at Fenner Hall.  Today, it is the location of Grace and Abe’s.  In 1921 and in 1922, the Charity Ball moved to the Grange Hall on the second floor of 79 East Main Street.  Music was provided by a six-piece orchestra.  Today, the former Grange Hall is home to Centerstage Dance Studio owned by former Radio City Music Hall Rockette, Emma Bishop. 

In 1923, the Charity Ball was held at Backman’s Rink with the Joe Armbruster Orchestra of Buffalo providing the music.  This orchestra also played in 1930, 1931 and 1941.  In 1925, Backman’s Rink built by John W. Backman was remodeled to become a spacious village hall.  The formal opening of Eason Hall was officially scheduled for Wednesday, January 14, 1925.  The following December the Charity Ball was held at Eason Hall with music provided by the Woodcliffe Orchestra of Dunkirk. In 1935, members of Peck's Bad Boys included Peg Blatherwick Beal, vocalist; Bob Cady, Walt Schropp, Al Kolpien, Hal Knowlton, Thad Wilcox, Jim Shearer, Jack Peck, Chuck Belden, Alva Mathews, Dave Falvay and Bud Peck, conductor.  In 1937, Peck's Bad Boys played at the Charity Ball.

The Charity Ball continued to be held at Eason Hall until 1940 though the Charity Ball returned to Eason Hall in 1941 to the present day. On December 26, 1940 the Charity Ball was held at Pinter's Restaurant located at 7 East Main Street.  During this time movies were shown at Eason Hall due to a fire at the Grand Theatre on North Portage.  Music was provided by the David Cheskin Orchestra of Buffalo. Today, the location is Brazill’s On Main. 

The beloved Mattie Mathews and His All Stars provided music for the Charity Ball in 1953, 1963, 1965, 1967, 1968 and 1969. In 1969, when Mattie played at the Charity ball the band’s name was Mattie Mathews Trio.  The beloved Deutschmeisters played four years later beginning in 1973 and continued into 1974, 1975, 1977, 1980 and 1982.  No doubt many polkas were requested at those Charity Balls.  This group of musicians played for the Charity Ball for six years as did Mattie Mathews and His All Stars.  Thank you, Gentlemen.

Additional orchestras and bands through the years included the Seelbach’s 20th Century Orchestra of Buffalo, The Club Georgians, White Knight’s of Buffalo; Frank Mutch Orchestra, Herbie Johnson Dixieland Band, Sims Molay of Jamestown, Joe Strada & Orchestra, Hal Barry Orchestra, Art Detrick Orchestra, Max Davis of Jamestown, Vince Costello of Dunkirk, Pat Oliver of Erie, Richard Fote of Fredonia, Larry Mutch, The Professors of Dunkirk-Fredonia, Joe T. Mann, Fredonia Jazz Ensemble, Steve Snyder, Tony DiRusso Orchestra, Neil Cross & Modern Brass, The Wallace-Farina Seven, Joey Allen Combo of Dunkirk-Fredonia, Freddie & The Flashbacks, The Rhythm Express of Lakewood, The Graduates, Joe Matczak Orchestra, The Leon Hall Show Band, Encore of Erie, Emerald City Productions, The Untouchables, Uncle Ben’s Remedy and DTO. Many of these groups played multiple years.

Since 1991 the Charity Ball has been held on the first Saturday in December.  Music for the 100th year will feature one of the most popular dance bands, Porcelain Busdrivers, of Jamestown NY. The Charity Ball is December 2nd from 8 p.m. to 12 a.m. with the time-honored song, Oh, When the Saints Go Marchin’ In being played during the “Grand March” at midnight.  The evening begins with cocktails and hors d'oeuvres at 7 p.m. and a champagne toast at 9 p.m. with Union Relief members being recognized. Tickets can be purchased from Union Relief members and at B&C Tax Bookkeeping Services, 61 E. Main Street Westfield NY. 

Come, one and all, to the Charity Ball!



Left to Right:  Melissa Trusler, Pat Locke, 

Bill Locke, Lori Cornell, Susan Weatherup




Monday, November 27, 2023

Charity Ball Memories

by 

Jeff Julian, Saxophone Player 

The Untouchables





When The Untouchables first entered Eason Hall we could feel the history all around us.  The effort that was evident in the preparation for the evening indicated a community coming together with impressive care and organization for a worthy cause.  The fact that this charitable event has been a long-standing tradition reflects even more favorably on the community.  In fact, the sense of tradition was present throughout the evening especially during the "Grand March" at midnight.  Our band had prepared to play "When the Saints Go Marchin' In" for an extended length of time, but we were surprised to see the guests dancing in a complex configuration seeming to be known only to them .. as if it were a community secret.  I was inspired by this and I brought my saxophone with a wireless microphone down to the dance floor and joined in!  The march included a tunnel made by the participants so I went through it.  The configuration eventually led out the door of Eason Hall into the snow with the townspeople gathered in the street outside.  We felt as if we had been accepted into a community filled with both tradition and goodwill.  The Untouchables felt that by performing at the event we were part of something larger than ourselves and we continue to have warm memories of both the Charity Ball and the generous people of Westfield and the Union Relief Association of Westfield NY.



Thank you, Jeff for sharing your special Charity Ball memories.  It is my pleasure to share your memories here. 

 Tickets are still available to purchase from any Union Relief member and at B&C Tax Bookkeeping Services in Westfield.  Come, one and all, to the Charity Ball.








Saturday, November 11, 2023

 


McAdenville began their tradition of Christmas Town USA in 1956 when a few members of the McAdenville Men's Club asked a man by the name of William James Pharr who came to town in 1939 if they could decorate a few trees around the McAdenville Community Center. Pharr not only gave permission, but he offered to pay for the lights and the labor. Year after year, more and more lights were added to the display.  Lights began to sparkle down Main Street.  Lights began to encircle the lake and eventually thousands upon thousands of lights poured across the town!  It was as if the spirit of the town simply needed to shine for the world!


It's Time to Visit Christmas Town USA

Christmas Town USA was literally written into the town's charter. Today, every resident and every business in McAdenville must agree to decorate for the holidays and keep the Christmas Town USA tradition alive.

McAdenville, NC just West of Charlotte thrives on putting the "Merry" in Christmas with a community-wide decorating effort that began in 1956 with just nine adorned trees and has turned into a nationally recognized holiday attraction and destination!

McAdenville IS Christmas Town USA


This NC Town Becomes a Beacon for Those Looking 

for 

Head-to-Toe Holiday Spirit!


In 1939, Pharr established Pharr Yarns which was the largest employer and land owner in McAdenville at the time. Every resident of McAdenville knows the Pharr name.  It's woven right into the tinsel of the town's history.  Pharr's personal values of 'goodwill toward men' helped create the spirit of kindness and magic that ultimately led to the creation of Christmas Town U.S.A. and become a gift for the entire State of North Carolina.




A Festive Tree on a Front Porch 
is Always a Nice Addition






In 1980, Christmas Town USA gained national attention when featured on CBS Sunday Morning with Charles Kuralt.  Since then, McAdenville has been featured on Good Morning America and other television shows in addition to popular periodicals such as Southern Living Magazine




Gingerbread Cookies Galore 
at 
this McAdenville Home





My husband, Bill and I experienced Christmas Town USA for many years when we spent our winters in North Carolina .  We came to know a gentleman by the name of Steve Rankin.  Steve is a professional McAdenville photographer who has contributed many beautiful Christmas Town USA photos.  If you are in North Carolina during the holiday season, make plans to visit this little town of 800 plus residents .. it's like walking onto the set of a Hallmark Christmas movie! 





Photo Credit to Steve Rankin





HO HO HO



Photo Credit to Steve Rankin






McAdenville Seen from Above










Yes, Virginia .. It Does Snow in North Carolina!



Photo Credit to Steve Rankin


The Tradition


 McAdenville's most beloved traditions is the Yule Log Parade and Ceremony which began in 1949.  After a trip overseas where Mr. and Mrs. William James Pharr attended a yule log celebration, they brought the idea of this community gathering back to McAdenville. The townspeople traditionally meet in front of the Pharr office in McAdenville to join in the parade led by a local high school band.  The log is pulled through the historic downtown to the memorial yule log fireplace at Legacy Park and placed upon the fire with great exuberance!




In Loving Memory 
of
Mr. and Mrs. William James Pharr
Founders of the McAdenville Christmas Lights 
and
Yule Log Ceremony

Mrs. Pharr suggested the use of red, white and green lights,
the traditional colors of Christmas.  Later, at Mrs. Pharr
suggestion, the trees around the lake were lighted.

The Gaston Symphonic Band and a choir fill children of all ages with Christmas Spirit! Come enjoy carriage rides, kettle corn and hot chocolate with Santa!














"Christmas Town USA and all of its 800 plus residents who decorate each Christmas season for the 600,000 who visit and enjoy McAdenville can do so free of charge.  Maybe the only town in the world that can make that statement."

Steve Rankin



And One Never Knows What They'll Come Upon
during the Holidays
in
Christmas Town USA





USA Today has entered the North Carolina Town of McAdenville in their 10 Best Public Holiday Lights Display in the United States. 


McAdenville is nicknamed "Christmas town USA" for good reason.  Each winter, this small town in North Carolina transforms into a festive twinkling wonderland dotted with thousands of lights, dramatic displays and a spirited Main Street.  Hundreds of thousands of visitors come to Christmas Town USA every December to drive or walk by breathtaking holiday displays .. a time-honored and proud tradition that continues.


Tap on the link below and vote for Christmas Town USA once per day until polls close on Wednesday, November 29 at noon EST.  The top 10 winning displays, determined by your vote, will be announced Friday, December 8.

I will announce the winner on this blog!